There’s conversations happening at every checkout line, every farmer’s market, every dinner table. The cost of eating healthy feels impossible, and people are tired. But here’s what your pharmacist turned storyteller needs you to sit with for a minute: you are going to pay. The only question is when, and to whom.

You can pay on the front end—fresh produce, real ingredients, food that still has dirt on it—or you can pay on the back end: prescriptions, co-pays, insulin, dialysis, hospital beds. I’ve seen the cost of both sides of that counter. I know the receipts.
And I’ll be honest. I am guilty of backend living. Y’all know I love a donut, and it is hard for me to resist a glass of sweet tea. So I’m not up here on a high horse. I’m in the struggle with you.
But to understand where we are, we have to know where we came from. There is a reason so many of us, particularly in the South and in cities our grandparents didn’t choose, grew up on the parts nobody else wanted. Neck bones. Ham hocks. Chitlins. Our people were not eating those things because they lacked imagination or taste. Contrarily. They were surviving on what was left after everything else was taken. That’s not poverty of spirit, that’s alchemy. They made something out of nothing and called it Sunday dinner.

Then came the migration. The promise of work, of wages, of a different kind of life. And they came. But what followed was a slow, quiet theft. Our families were moved into food deserts while grocery chains chased more profitable zip codes. Corner stores replaced vegetable gardens. Dollar menus replaced home cooking. Generation by generation, we were made to depend on a food system that was never designed with our health in mind.
And now? More chemicals and air in the bags than food. Prices climbing every week. Labels full of words you can’t pronounce. They stole our land. Moved us from the land. And then built a system that profits from our distance from it.
The good news—and there is good news—is that people are finding their way back.
Community gardens. Farmer’s markets. Backyard plots with collard greens and tomatoes. Herbs on apartment windowsills. It’s not just a trend. It’s memory. Resistance. A return to knowing where your food comes from and what it actually cost—in money, in health, in history.
I recently took my grocery list to the farmer’s market to do a real price comparison (watch the full vlog—the results may or may not surprise you). What I found wasn’t just about dollars and cents. It was about proximity, quality, and what we’ve been conditioned to accept as “affordable.”

The cost of eating healthy is real. I’m not here to pretend a bag of fresh produce doesn’t hit different when you’re watching your account balance. But cheap processed food has a price too—it just sends the bill later, and it sends it with interest. Not to mention, it’s not so cheap either.
Pay the farmer now. Or pay the pharmacy later. And trust me, I say that as someone who has worked the pharmacy counter and who can not wait to sink my teeth into a glazed donut.
The choice is ours. And we are worth making it.
BTW: “The axe forgets, but the tree remembers.” – African Proverb
Drop a comment: Are you shopping farmer’s markets, growing your own, or still navigating the grocery store struggle? Let’s talk about it.
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