The first time I flew alone with both of my kids, Arrington (4) and Aliah (2), I was nervous but ready for the challenge.
It was a quick flight from Texas to Mississippi, but I knew that flying alone with young children could be unpredictable. Quite frankly, I did not want to be embarrassed, nor do I like feeling incapable. The kids were great by the way.
Over time, I’ve learned some tips and tricks that have made flying with my kids much easier and stress-free. If you’re getting ready for your own adventure with small children, here are some practical tips to help make the experience as smooth as possible.
1. Can I Get A Window Seat – War Resolved
Both of my kids absolutely love sitting by the window. On that first flight, I realized this could lead to a constant battle for who gets to claim the window seat. So, I came up with a simple solution: whoever calls it first gets it on the first leg of the trip, and the other gets it on the return flight. This rule has been a game-changer in avoiding arguments and ensuring everyone feels like they’ve gotten a turn.
2. Everyone Carries Their Own Backpack
One rule I quickly established was that everyone carries their own backpack. After all, I’m not about to break my back hauling everyone’s things! Each child is responsible for packing a few essentials, like their favorite snack and a thin workbook or coloring book. Beyond that, they can pack whatever they want—whether it’s an iPad, a stuffed animal, or toys—as long as the backpack can close and they can carry it themselves. This not only teaches them a bit of independence but also makes my life a whole lot easier.
3. Early Flights = Less Stress
I always aim to book early morning flights for one simple reason: they’re less likely to be delayed. Plus, my kids are natural early risers, so getting them out of bed for an early flight is never a struggle. I make sure they have a hearty breakfast before we leave, which keeps their energy stable, and they often fall back asleep once we’re in the air. The night before, I stick to our usual routine—balanced dinner, plenty of sleep—just like a school night, so they wake up refreshed and ready to go.
Best of all, early flights mean we arrive at our destination with a full day ahead, giving us more time to enjoy the trip!
4. Dress for Comfort
I’ve found that dressing my kids in layers makes things easier. Whether we’re flying to a warm destination or leaving from a cooler one, planes can get chilly, so I dress them in sweatpants or yoga pants, a shirt, and a light jacket or hoodie. This way, they’re comfortable no matter what the temperature is inside the plane.
5. TSA & Baby Food – Be Prepared
If you’re traveling with young children who need baby food or formula, be prepared for TSA to take extra time inspecting your items. I learned this the hard way when we missed a flight (to Orlando ironically) because of TSA delays checking our baby food, breast milk, and bottles.
Although we are past the bottle phase (Arrington is now 8 and Aliah 5), I still give us plenty of time at the airport to avoid feeling rushed—but not so much that the kids start getting antsy, asking a million times, “When are we leaving?”
6. Pack Light, but Smart
Whenever possible, I pack everything in carry-ons, especially when heading to warmer climates. This requires careful planning when it comes to outfits and shoes, but it saves us time and hassle by avoiding checked baggage. My kids are at the perfect age where they actually enjoy rolling their own suitcases, and with carry-ons on wheels, it becomes part of the fun. They feel like little helpers, and I don’t have to worry about dealing with extra luggage once we land.
7. Visit the Cockpit
One way to add some excitement to the flight is by asking if your kids can visit the cockpit before takeoff. Most pilots are happy to give them a quick tour, and it makes the trip even more special. My kids were thrilled when we did this on our flight to Orlando, and asked if they can do this every time they fly!
8. Keep Them Entertained
Before any flight, I make sure to download their favorite movies and games for offline use. Some airlines, like Southwest, offer complimentary in-flight entertainment, but I don’t rely on it just in case. Having a backup ensures they stay entertained, especially during long flights. And don’t forget headphones!
9. Bring the Essentials
As a pharmacist and a mother, I always travel with a small kit of necessities, including travel-sized children’s acetaminophen, baby wipes, disinfectant, and a few basic first aid items. This way, I’m prepared for any minor issues that might come up during the flight. Anything else can be purchased once we arrive, if need be.
10. Stay Calm, Sit Back, and Enjoy the Ride
The key to flying with young children is to stay calm and keep the energy light and fun. Kids pick up on our vibes, and if you’re stressed or anxious, they’re likely to mirror that. I try to make the whole experience feel like an adventure for them, which keeps things positive and exciting. With a bit of patience, flexibility, and some solid preparation, you can make flying with kids a breeze.
In the end, traveling with kids, even solo, doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With a few simple rules and a lot of patience, you can turn the experience into a smooth, enjoyable journey for everyone.
BTW: “Two of the greatest gifts we can give our children are roots and wings” – Hodding Carter
Ready to take on your next adventure with the kids? Share your favorite travel tips or questions in the comments below! Don’t forget to subscribe for more family travel hacks and helpful parenting tips. Safe travels!
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